My spouse wants to have children now, but I'm worried about the financial strain and feel like we haven't achieved enough yet. How do we reconcile this fundamental difference?

Ivan Šakić

Ivan Šakić

Agree to have kids16 votes (24%)
Postpone for goals20 votes (30%)
Seek counselling together16 votes (24%)
Compromise on timing15 votes (22%)

67 votes total • Created 2/5/2026

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My spouse wants to have children now, but I'm worried about the financial strain and feel like we haven't achieved enough yet. How do we reconcile this fundamental difference? | asQkme