My estranged sibling, who caused me immense pain years ago, is now gravely ill and wishes to reconcile; do I forgive and visit them, or protect myself from further hurt?

Laurie Jean-Baptiste

Laurie Jean-Baptiste

Forgive and visit20 votes (31%)
Protect myself, no contact16 votes (25%)
Send a written message13 votes (20%)
Seek mediation first16 votes (25%)

65 votes total • Created 2/1/2026

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