My long-time group of friends is planning a trip that I can't afford without going into significant debt. Do I bite the bullet and go to avoid feeling left out, or be honest about my finances and miss out?

Shelly Young

Shelly Young

Go, incur debt8 votes (19%)
Decline, explain truth15 votes (36%)
Suggest cheaper alternative13 votes (31%)
Borrow from family6 votes (14%)

42 votes total • Created 1/30/2026

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My long-time group of friends is planning a trip that I can't afford without going into significant debt. Do I bite the bullet and go to avoid feeling left out, or be honest about my finances and miss out? | asQkme