My partner just confessed they're deeply unhappy in our long-term relationship, but wants to stay together 'for the kids.' Do I agree to maintain the facade for our children's sake, or insist we separate for our own happiness, potentially hurting them more?

Svyatolyub Gladush

Svyatolyub Gladush

Stay for the kids13 votes (20%)
Separate for happiness20 votes (31%)
Seek couples therapy16 votes (25%)
Trial separation first15 votes (23%)

64 votes total • Created 1/29/2026

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My partner just confessed they're deeply unhappy in our long-term relationship, but wants to stay together 'for the kids.' Do I agree to maintain the facade for our children's sake, or insist we separate for our own happiness, potentially hurting them more? | asQkme