My new partner has a very close relationship with their ex, who is still actively involved in their life and family (e.g., attending all family events, frequent calls). It makes me uncomfortable and insecure. Do I voice my discomfort, risking conflict, or try to accept the situation?

Laura Madsen

Laura Madsen

Voice discomfort14 votes (25%)
Accept situation18 votes (32%)
Suggest new boundaries13 votes (23%)
Work on my insecurity11 votes (20%)

56 votes total • Created 1/28/2026

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My new partner has a very close relationship with their ex, who is still actively involved in their life and family (e.g., attending all family events, frequent calls). It makes me uncomfortable and insecure. Do I voice my discomfort, risking conflict, or try to accept the situation? | asQkme