My sibling, who I love dearly, is making choices (e.g., destructive relationships, substance abuse) that are clearly self-destructive and affecting our family. Every attempt to intervene causes huge arguments. Do I continue to try and help, or step back for my own mental health?

Charlotte Johnson

Charlotte Johnson

Keep trying to help20 votes (34%)
Step back completely14 votes (24%)
Seek family therapy9 votes (16%)
Set clear boundaries15 votes (26%)

58 votes total • Created 1/28/2026

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My sibling, who I love dearly, is making choices (e.g., destructive relationships, substance abuse) that are clearly self-destructive and affecting our family. Every attempt to intervene causes huge arguments. Do I continue to try and help, or step back for my own mental health? | asQkme