I've discovered my best friend, who is deeply religious, is having an affair, and their spouse is also a close friend of mine. Do I tell their spouse, risking the friendship and causing immense pain, or keep silent and live with the secret?
Andrea Sánchez
Tell spouse directly
16 votes (24%)
Confront best friend
19 votes (29%)
Stay out of it
13 votes (20%)
Counsel privately both
18 votes (27%)
66 votes total • Created 1/27/2026
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