I've discovered my best friend, who is deeply religious, is having an affair, and their spouse is also a close friend of mine. Do I tell their spouse, risking the friendship and causing immense pain, or keep silent and live with the secret?

Andrea Sánchez

Andrea Sánchez

Tell spouse directly16 votes (24%)
Confront best friend19 votes (29%)
Stay out of it13 votes (20%)
Counsel privately both18 votes (27%)

66 votes total • Created 1/27/2026

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