My long-term partner wants to move to a different country for their dream opportunity, but I am deeply rooted here with my own career and elderly relatives. Do I sacrifice my stability for their happiness, or ask them to sacrifice for mine?

Dominykas Magnus

Dominykas Magnus

Move with them19 votes (27%)
Ask them to stay21 votes (30%)
Attempt long-distance12 votes (17%)
Suggest compromise location19 votes (27%)

71 votes total • Created 1/24/2026

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My long-term partner wants to move to a different country for their dream opportunity, but I am deeply rooted here with my own career and elderly relatives. Do I sacrifice my stability for their happiness, or ask them to sacrifice for mine? | asQkme