My parents, who are quite traditional, expect me to follow family traditions for my wedding, but I deeply desire a small, non-traditional ceremony that reflects my partner and I – do I conform to their expectations or plan the wedding I truly want?
Melissa Sæternes
Conform to tradition
10 votes (15%)
Plan desired wedding
19 votes (28%)
Compromise elements
20 votes (29%)
Elope quietly
19 votes (28%)
68 votes total • Created 1/19/2026
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