My parents, who are quite traditional, expect me to follow family traditions for my wedding, but I deeply desire a small, non-traditional ceremony that reflects my partner and I – do I conform to their expectations or plan the wedding I truly want?

Melissa Sæternes

Melissa Sæternes

Conform to tradition10 votes (15%)
Plan desired wedding19 votes (28%)
Compromise elements20 votes (29%)
Elope quietly19 votes (28%)

68 votes total • Created 1/19/2026

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