My partner has a significant debt they kept hidden from me, and now that we're considering buying a house together, it impacts our ability to secure a good mortgage – do I overlook it and proceed, demand they resolve it first, or reconsider our future?
Siiri Jarvi
Proceed, assume debt16 votes (23%)
Demand debt resolution16 votes (23%)
Reconsider relationship24 votes (34%)
Create repayment plan15 votes (21%)
71 votes total • Created 1/19/2026
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