My estranged sibling, whom I haven't spoken to in years due to a painful family rift, is now facing a severe health crisis and wants to reconcile. Do I open myself up to potential renewed pain and past trauma for a chance at healing, or protect my current peace and stay disconnected?

Rose Bergeron

Rose Bergeron

Attempt reconciliation19 votes (29%)
Maintain distance11 votes (17%)
Send well wishes only14 votes (21%)
Set strict boundaries22 votes (33%)

66 votes total • Created 1/14/2026

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