My partner just confessed a deep, painful secret from their past that explains much of their past behavior; do I forgive them and move forward, or do I acknowledge the irreversible change it creates in our relationship and consider ending it?

Jasmine Novak

Jasmine Novak

Forgive, move forward5 votes (23%)
End relationship4 votes (18%)
Seek couple's therapy7 votes (32%)
Time for processing6 votes (27%)

22 votes total • Created 1/4/2026

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My partner just confessed a deep, painful secret from their past that explains much of their past behavior; do I forgive them and move forward, or do I acknowledge the irreversible change it creates in our relationship and consider ending it? | asQkme