I've discovered my best friend, who is married, is having an affair with a mutual acquaintance. I don't want to betray her trust, but I also feel a responsibility to her spouse, whom I also care for. What should I do?

Eugenio Galván

Eugenio Galván

Confront friend privately23 votes (40%)

Tell spouse directly16 votes (28%)

Say nothing, avoid13 votes (23%)

Suggest friend confesses5 votes (9%)

57 votes total • Created 1/11/2026

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I've discovered my best friend, who is married, is having an affair with a mutual acquaintance. I don't want to betray her trust, but I also feel a responsibility to her spouse, whom I also care for. What should I do? | asQkme