My partner wants to adopt a child, a dream they've held forever, but I have serious reservations about parenthood and the immense responsibility involved. Do I compromise for their happiness or stand firm on my feelings?

Ella Rivera

Ella Rivera

Compromise, pursue adoption14 votes (20%)
Stand firm, avoid adoption15 votes (21%)
Seek counseling together24 votes (34%)
Delay decision, explore17 votes (24%)

70 votes total • Created 1/9/2026

Want to vote on this poll? Sign in to asQkme