My aging parent, who sacrificed everything for me, now needs constant care that would require me to quit my career and deplete my savings; do I commit fully to their care, or hire external help I cannot truly afford, while maintaining my career?

Eemil Kyllonen

Eemil Kyllonen

Full-time personal care6 votes (40%)
Hire external, struggle6 votes (40%)
Blend care and work2 votes (13%)
Move parent to facility1 vote (7%)

15 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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