My estranged sibling, who caused significant pain years ago, is now gravely ill and reaching out, expressing deep regret and wanting to reconcile. Do I open old wounds to forgive them or protect myself by maintaining distance?

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Servando Garica

Attempt reconciliation5 votes (22%)
Maintain distance5 votes (22%)
Set strict boundaries6 votes (26%)
Seek therapy first7 votes (30%)

23 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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My estranged sibling, who caused significant pain years ago, is now gravely ill and reaching out, expressing deep regret and wanting to reconcile. Do I open old wounds to forgive them or protect myself by maintaining distance? | asQkme