My dream job offer just came in, but it's in a city three states away, and my partner's elderly, ailing parents live locally and rely heavily on them for care. Do I pursue my career aspirations or prioritize my partner's family commitments?

Gorisvit Vavrik

Gorisvit Vavrik

Accept job, long-distance9 votes (36%)
Decline job, offer support7 votes (28%)
Negotiate remote work5 votes (20%)
Find local compromise4 votes (16%)

25 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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My dream job offer just came in, but it's in a city three states away, and my partner's elderly, ailing parents live locally and rely heavily on them for care. Do I pursue my career aspirations or prioritize my partner's family commitments? | asQkme