My partner and I saved for years for a down payment on a house, but now their sibling has a medical emergency and needs the money; do we give it to them, or keep our down payment?

Agafiya Maksimenko

Agafiya Maksimenko

Give money to sibling2 votes (14%)
Keep money for house6 votes (43%)
Offer a partial loan4 votes (29%)
Fundraise for sibling2 votes (14%)

14 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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My partner and I saved for years for a down payment on a house, but now their sibling has a medical emergency and needs the money; do we give it to them, or keep our down payment? | asQkme