My best friend is about to marry someone I strongly suspect is conning them for money, but I have no concrete proof, just strong gut feelings and circumstantial evidence. Should I speak up and risk our friendship?

Leontine Vingerhoets

Leontine Vingerhoets

Speak up directly7 votes (23%)
Gather more proof11 votes (37%)
Stay silent, support7 votes (23%)
Hint at concerns5 votes (17%)

30 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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