My spouse wants to start a family, but I've always harbored secret doubts about being a parent and fear I'm not ready, or perhaps ever will be. Do I proceed with their wishes, hoping I'll adapt, or confess my hesitations and risk the relationship?

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Proceed, hope to adapt10 votes (32%)
Confess true feelings7 votes (23%)
Seek couples counseling4 votes (13%)
Delay family planning10 votes (32%)

31 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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My spouse wants to start a family, but I've always harbored secret doubts about being a parent and fear I'm not ready, or perhaps ever will be. Do I proceed with their wishes, hoping I'll adapt, or confess my hesitations and risk the relationship? | asQkme