My spouse secretly incurred a massive debt, which I've just discovered, threatening our financial stability and future. Do I confront them immediately and demand repayment, seek professional help, or quietly try to manage it myself?

Ashton Kumar

Ashton Kumar

Confront immediately, demand solutions12 votes (40%)
Seek couples therapy first3 votes (10%)
Manage debt secretly7 votes (23%)
Consult a financial advisor8 votes (27%)

30 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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