My partner confessed to a past infidelity years ago before we met, but it involves someone we now frequently encounter in social settings. Knowing this detail makes me deeply uncomfortable around this person, but bringing it up now could reopen old wounds for my partner and potentially damage our trust. Should I voice my discomfort or try to move past it internally?

Florence Taylor

Florence Taylor

Express discomfort now2 votes (17%)
Process feelings internally2 votes (17%)
Avoid the person3 votes (25%)
Seek relationship counseling5 votes (42%)

12 votes total • Created 7/8/2026

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