My financially struggling sibling asked for a significant loan that I can afford, but they have a history of not repaying debts and poor financial choices. Do I risk my own financial security and enable their patterns, or refuse and strain our relationship?

Marie-Therese Baumann

Marie-Therese Baumann

Lend, with clear terms2 votes (33%)
Refuse, offer advice2 votes (33%)
Give non-repayable gift1 vote (17%)
Lend with strict oversight1 vote (17%)

6 votes total • Created 7/3/2026

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