I've discovered my new romantic partner has a past I find deeply troubling, involving actions that, while not illegal, go against my core values. Do I end the relationship or try to understand and accept their past?

Atharv Moolya

Atharv Moolya

End the relationship2 votes (20%)
Attempt to understand1 vote (10%)
Insist on therapy5 votes (50%)
Give them ultimatum2 votes (20%)

10 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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I've discovered my new romantic partner has a past I find deeply troubling, involving actions that, while not illegal, go against my core values. Do I end the relationship or try to understand and accept their past? | asQkme