My spouse and I are at an impasse about adopting; I desperately want children, but they are firmly against it, citing personal traumas; do I stay and forfeit my dream of parenthood, or leave to pursue my deepest desire?

Edeltraut Ridder

Edeltraut Ridder

Stay, forfeit parenthood1 vote (20%)
Leave, pursue parenthood1 vote (20%)
Seek marriage counseling1 vote (20%)
Explore alternative parenthood2 votes (40%)

5 votes total • Created 6/1/2026

Want to vote on this poll? Sign in to asQkme

My spouse and I are at an impasse about adopting; I desperately want children, but they are firmly against it, citing personal traumas; do I stay and forfeit my dream of parenthood, or leave to pursue my deepest desire? | asQkme