My partner and I saved for years for a down payment on a house, but now their sibling has a medical emergency and needs the money; do we give it to them, or keep our down payment?

Melodie Smith

Melodie Smith

Give money to sibling0 votes (0%)
Keep money for house3 votes (43%)
Offer a partial loan3 votes (43%)
Fundraise for sibling1 vote (14%)

7 votes total • Created 5/18/2026

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My partner and I saved for years for a down payment on a house, but now their sibling has a medical emergency and needs the money; do we give it to them, or keep our down payment? | asQkme