My elderly neighbor, who lives alone, has clearly begun to experience cognitive decline and is making dangerous decisions, but fiercely resists any outside help, valuing their independence above all. Do I intervene and risk stripping their autonomy, or respect their wishes and risk their safety?

Charlotte Johnson

Charlotte Johnson

Intervene for safety.2 votes (14%)
Respect independence.5 votes (36%)
Involve their family covertly.3 votes (21%)
Offer subtle support.4 votes (29%)

14 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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