My child, an adult, has made a series of very poor life choices that have left them in significant debt and emotionally unstable. Do I continue to bail them out financially and emotionally, enabling their behavior, or cut them off to force them to learn independence?

Andrés Alonso

Andrés Alonso

Continue to offer support.4 votes (15%)
Cut off all assistance.5 votes (19%)
Offer limited, conditional aid.9 votes (33%)
Facilitate professional help.9 votes (33%)

27 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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My child, an adult, has made a series of very poor life choices that have left them in significant debt and emotionally unstable. Do I continue to bail them out financially and emotionally, enabling their behavior, or cut them off to force them to learn independence? | asQkme