I've discovered my best friend's partner is secretly having an affair. Telling my friend would undoubtedly shatter their trust in me for interfering, but not telling them feels like a betrayal of our long-standing friendship. What should I do?

Francyelle Silva

Francyelle Silva

Tell friend immediately1 vote (25%)
Confront partner first1 vote (25%)
Stay silent, observe2 votes (50%)
Anonymously inform friend0 votes (0%)

4 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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I've discovered my best friend's partner is secretly having an affair. Telling my friend would undoubtedly shatter their trust in me for interfering, but not telling them feels like a betrayal of our long-standing friendship. What should I do? | asQkme