A former colleague, recently laid off and struggling, asked me to write a glowing, slightly embellished reference for a job they're highly unqualified for; do I help them despite honesty concerns?
Frank Langset
Write the embellished reference
3 votes (30%)
Decline, citing ethics
2 votes (20%)
Offer honest, measured praise
1 vote (10%)
Suggest other forms of help
4 votes (40%)
10 votes total • Created 3/4/2026
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