My spouse just confessed to a past infidelity they deeply regret, which was years ago and seemingly resolved; do I try to forgive and rebuild trust, or is this a deal-breaker?

Isla Mikkola

Isla Mikkola

Forgive, rebuild trust4 votes (44%)
End relationship now2 votes (22%)
Seek couples therapy1 vote (11%)
Demand full transparency2 votes (22%)

9 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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My spouse just confessed to a past infidelity they deeply regret, which was years ago and seemingly resolved; do I try to forgive and rebuild trust, or is this a deal-breaker? | asQkme