My estranged sibling, who I haven't spoken to in years due to a painful past, is now critically ill and reaching out. Do I visit them, risking reopening old wounds, or maintain my distance for my own emotional well-being?

Cooper Wang

Cooper Wang

Visit, offer support3 votes (30%)
Send well wishes only1 vote (10%)
Maintain no contact4 votes (40%)
Visit with strict boundaries2 votes (20%)

10 votes total • Created 3/3/2026

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