My estranged adult child has reached out for financial help after making a series of poor choices that led to their current predicament. Do I provide the aid they need, knowing it might enable their behavior, or refuse to force them to learn resilience?

Darren Walters

Darren Walters

Provide financial aid2 votes (15%)
Refuse aid, offer advice6 votes (46%)
Aid with strict conditions3 votes (23%)
Seek professional help2 votes (15%)

13 votes total • Created 3/19/2026

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