My estranged sibling, who I haven't spoken to in years due to a painful past, is now critically ill and reaching out. Do I visit them, risking reopening old wounds, or maintain my distance for my own emotional well-being?

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Visit, offer support5 votes (23%)
Send well wishes only7 votes (32%)
Maintain no contact4 votes (18%)
Visit with strict boundaries6 votes (27%)

22 votes total • Created 1/4/2026

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My estranged sibling, who I haven't spoken to in years due to a painful past, is now critically ill and reaching out. Do I visit them, risking reopening old wounds, or maintain my distance for my own emotional well-being? | asQkme