I've been asked to host a large family gathering, but my estranged sibling, who caused a significant rift, will be attending, making an already stressful event unbearable for me; do I host as requested or decline to avoid conflict?

Lily Thomas

Lily Thomas

Host, endure discomfort9 votes (56%)
Decline hosting duty1 vote (6%)
Host, exclude sibling3 votes (19%)
Attempt reconciliation first3 votes (19%)

16 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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