My estranged parent, who was abusive when I was a child, is now elderly and very ill, expressing a desire to reconcile before they die; do I revisit old wounds for potential closure, or protect my current peace?

Alisa Perala

Alisa Perala

Attempt reconciliation6 votes (40%)
Maintain no contact2 votes (13%)
Send a letter5 votes (33%)
Seek therapy first2 votes (13%)

15 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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My estranged parent, who was abusive when I was a child, is now elderly and very ill, expressing a desire to reconcile before they die; do I revisit old wounds for potential closure, or protect my current peace? | asQkme