My spouse wants to move across the country for their dream job, which would mean I have to leave my supportive community, established career, and elderly parents. Do I prioritize their happiness and move, or prioritize my own stability and ask them to reconsider?

Lucas Or Luke Watson

Lucas Or Luke Watson

Move for spouse's job3 votes (11%)
Stay, ask them reconsider8 votes (30%)
Seek compromise solution7 votes (26%)
Temporarily live apart9 votes (33%)

27 votes total • Created 1/4/2026

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My spouse wants to move across the country for their dream job, which would mean I have to leave my supportive community, established career, and elderly parents. Do I prioritize their happiness and move, or prioritize my own stability and ask them to reconsider? | asQkme