I've been asked to deliver a eulogy for a public figure who, despite their benevolent public persona, was personally very cruel to me and others I know. Do I deliver an honest but potentially damaging eulogy, or a conventional, positive one?

Carl Gomez

Carl Gomez

Deliver honest eulogy6 votes (26%)
Deliver conventional eulogy5 votes (22%)
Decline to speak8 votes (35%)
Focus on positive aspects4 votes (17%)

23 votes total • Created 1/4/2026

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I've been asked to deliver a eulogy for a public figure who, despite their benevolent public persona, was personally very cruel to me and others I know. Do I deliver an honest but potentially damaging eulogy, or a conventional, positive one? | asQkme