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My spouse, after years of trying, reveals they no longer want children, a desire I still hold deeply and have always envisioned for our future. Can our relationship survive this fundamental difference?
یاسمن یاسمیAccept their decision26%
Re-evaluate the marriage21%
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43 votes•1/16/2026
I've been offered an early retirement package that would free up my time for creative pursuits but would mean a significantly reduced pension, impacting my long-term financial security. Do I take it?
Allen MeyerTake early retirement24%
Work until full pension37%
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51 votes•1/16/2026
My best friend is planning an elaborate, expensive destination wedding that I genuinely cannot afford without going into debt, but I'm a bridesmaid and don't want to disappoint them. What do I do?
Jarand NurExplain financial hardship30%
Go into debt, attend19%
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57 votes•1/16/2026
I'm a doctor and a patient with a severe, incurable illness is asking for assistance in ending their life, citing unbearable suffering and loss of dignity. While illegal, I empathize deeply with their plea. Do I follow the law, or provide compassionate aid and face legal repercussions?
Marthe BøthunFollow strict law20%
Provide compassionate aid24%
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49 votes•1/15/2026
My personal data has been compromised in a major breach, and the company is offering a small settlement that requires me to sign away my rights to further legal action. Do I accept the quick, small compensation, or pursue a potentially lengthy and expensive class-action lawsuit for greater justice?
Darryl HarperAccept settlement26%
Join class-action23%
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70 votes•1/15/2026
I've been offered a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to travel the world for a year, but it means postponing my studies and delaying my career start by a significant amount. Do I seize the adventure, or prioritize my long-term career stability?
Severin BußSeize the adventure19%
Prioritize career26%
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42 votes•1/15/2026
My spouse wants to have a child, something they've always dreamed of, but I'm deeply concerned about the state of the world (climate change, political instability, economic uncertainty) and question the ethics of bringing a new life into it. Do I suppress my fears for my partner's happiness, or voice my concerns and risk disappointing them profoundly?
Ganna PuhlyankoHave child for partner21%
Voice concerns strongly26%
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42 votes•1/15/2026
My cultural traditions are clashing with my personal modern values, particularly regarding decisions about my own life path (marriage, career, etc.) Do I honor my heritage and family expectations, or forge my own path and risk alienating my family and community?
Justin GillFollow traditions24%
Forgive own path22%
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59 votes•1/15/2026
I'm in a long-term relationship that's comfortable and stable, but I've recently developed strong feelings for someone new who challenges and excites me in ways my current partner doesn't. Do I stay in the known comfort, or risk everything for a potentially more fulfilling but uncertain future?
یلدا علیزادهStay, work on relationship29%
Pursue new feelings22%
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51 votes•1/15/2026
I've been volunteering extensively for a cause I deeply believe in, but it's taking a severe toll on my mental and physical health, leading to burnout. Do I push through, sacrificing my well-being for the cause, or pull back and risk feeling guilty?
Ava HughesPush through burnout23%
Pull back, rest31%
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62 votes•1/15/2026
My neighborhood is gentrifying rapidly, and while property values are rising, long-time residents are being priced out. As a new resident, do I participate in the economic growth, or actively resist it to preserve the original community's character and affordability?
Manuel VelásquezEmbrace growth29%
Resist gentrification19%
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59 votes•1/15/2026
My best friend has just confided in me that they are having an affair with a mutual close friend's spouse. They've begged me to keep it a secret. Do I uphold my loyalty to my best friend, or inform the betrayed friend and potentially blow up multiple relationships?
Önal YeşilkayaKeep the secret32%
Inform betrayed friend24%
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50 votes•1/15/2026
My child is struggling in school and wants to drop out to pursue a non-traditional career path that has uncertain prospects. I want them to be happy, but also financially secure and well-educated. Do I support their unconventional dreams or push for traditional education?
Gedeão PiresSupport unconventional path26%
Insist on education21%
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58 votes•1/15/2026
My creative project, which I poured years of my life into, is finally gaining traction but demands I compromise on my core artistic vision to appeal to a wider audience and secure funding. Do I stay true to my original vision, or adapt it for success?
Grace SinghCompromise vision35%
Stay true, risk funding23%
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69 votes•1/15/2026
My family relies heavily on my income, but my current job is soul-crushing and making me deeply unhappy. I have an opportunity for a less lucrative but much more fulfilling career that would mean significantly tightening our belts. Do I prioritize family's financial comfort or my own well-being and happiness?
Eeli ManninenPrioritize family income17%
Prioritize own happiness26%
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46 votes•1/15/2026
I've discovered a serious flaw in my company's product that could potentially harm users, but reporting it would cause a massive recall, costing thousands of jobs and likely bankrupting the company. Do I expose the flaw or protect my colleagues' livelihoods?
Servando GaricaExpose the flaw30%
Report internally first27%
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71 votes•1/15/2026
My elderly neighbor, who lives alone and struggles financially, often asks for help with tasks I know she could pay for, implying she can't afford it. I want to help, but am I enabling her or genuinely assisting someone in need? What's the best way to support her without creating dependency?
Steve MartinOffer financial aid24%
Help with tasks only31%
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54 votes•1/15/2026
I accidentally discovered a hidden talent for something I previously despised, something that goes against my self-identity and the image I've projected for years. Do I embrace this unexpected talent and change my self-perception, or suppress it to maintain my established identity?
Katarina TrostEmbrace new talent19%
Suppress talent32%
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63 votes•1/15/2026
My spouse and I disagree fundamentally on how to raise our children regarding religious education; I want them raised with faith, while my spouse prefers a secular upbringing. How do we reconcile this core difference?
Servando GaricaRaise them with faith26%
Raise them secularly19%
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62 votes•1/14/2026
My dream job offer just came in, but it's in a city halfway across the world, meaning I'd have to leave my aging parents and very close-knit established friend group. Do I prioritize personal ambition or familial/communal ties?
Justin GillAccept job, relocate30%
Decline job, stay20%
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54 votes•1/14/2026
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